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20 Jul 2018 12:14 AM
Hi Bella @outlander
and by that I mean you are beautiful too, not just our other forum ladies.
I agree with the approaches of @Zoe7 and @Former-Member
Be practical. We cant do it all, though the urge to stretch ourselves and do everything is big in young adulthood.
Figuring out finances is hard, but in the long run, it is super empowering. You have a good head on your shoulders, but it sounds like an awful lot of pressure is on you at the moment. Make the decisions that are clear and logical. If there is too much emotional weight around it ... give yourself more time.
I love @Former-Member go to bed for 3 days and come out and the world looks different. We cant do that all the time, but maybe you can 'Be GENEROUS with yourself, Work out how to LOOK after you the very best, rather than try to be super carer and super big sister. Finances teaches us to be sustainable. You can do it.
20 Jul 2018 10:05 AM
20 Jul 2018 10:05 AM
Thank you everyone for your msgs yesterday. I really appreciate them. Im not really sure what to say, the cogs arent turning all that well atm (except in overdrive!) @Appleblossom@Former-Member@Former-Member ( i read your original post, it was fine the way it was ❤) @Zoe7@Snowie@Sans911
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Oh geez @outlander that is a long way off Hon - are you on the cancellation list incase an earlier appointment becomes available?
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