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19 Jul 2024 08:09 PM - edited 19 Jul 2024 08:10 PM
19 Jul 2024 08:09 PM - edited 19 Jul 2024 08:10 PM
His mother ....... Yes. She has done this before.
We all know people who are very self involved don't we
I need to sleep. My ex-husband is in a psych ward.
His mother ......yes. it is --
Peoples reactions are about them, not about me.
Iv only done what I felt what was right. I'm glad it's over, 3 years after divorcing him.
I didn't want a thanx or anything it's just the viciousness of it all.
19 Jul 2024 08:28 PM
19 Jul 2024 08:28 PM
Hope you are okay @PeppyPatti
We have your back.
19 Jul 2024 09:22 PM
19 Jul 2024 09:22 PM
Dear @tyme
I feel this weird smell of a hospital ward around me I guess this means codependency.
Thank god for sane
Thank god for therapy
Thank god for budgies.
19 Jul 2024 09:25 PM
19 Jul 2024 09:25 PM
19 Jul 2024 09:30 PM
19 Jul 2024 09:30 PM
You have no idea 💡 @tyme
He's very ill.
God. His mum and dad didn't contact once when they knew how much I was doing for him.
That's fine but the mother's viciousness....
And she has two of my paintings on her loungeroom wall.....
Lol....
19 Jul 2024 09:32 PM
19 Jul 2024 09:32 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that @PeppyPatti .
It must leave you feeling heavy-hearted. Your birds are so beautiful. Hope you can look at them and love them to lighten things a little.
19 Jul 2024 10:20 PM
19 Jul 2024 10:20 PM
Aw La Tomato, or given your love of sauna and my basic knowledge of Finnish, Tomaatti, @Glisten that's really lovely. I am truly humbled by our Sane family. I have been blessed in my opinion. When I read about what you and other members have gone through and you still manage to smile, offer words of comfort and share a laugh I am more thankful about my situation.
I am going to do some research on accessing my super. Huge thanks for the link too. I was able to check pricing and I can't save fast enough to get the teefs fixed where I'm not in intense pain every time my sinuses get blocked. Which has been a lot the last couple of weeks.
How's your weekend looking up there in the J-Dup? Aside from researching I am catching up with my momsie. She's just come back from a week in Kalbarri and she will be needing to tell me all about it! I was supposed to go and see her tonight but as I told her my back is giving me pain. She sounded peeved and I later said to my brother "sorry my intense pain has inconvenienced you, mother"
I love her dearly and am lucky I still have her but dang she can be self absorbed!
I have a task for you my darling Tomaatti - have a sauna for me!
19 Jul 2024 10:35 PM
19 Jul 2024 10:35 PM
@ENKELI minim Retiisi - did I do that right? 😆
Definitely having a steam and sauna this weekend.
hugs Tomaatti
19 Jul 2024 11:39 PM
19 Jul 2024 11:39 PM
@Glisten well done! 👏
I'm signing off for the night, will chat with you over the weekend.
And now for the trivia part of the evening - there are more saunas than cars in Finland. They have a population of 5 million and over 2 million saunas.
19 Jul 2024 11:47 PM
19 Jul 2024 11:47 PM
Sweden | 267,570 | 984 |
..ok @ENKELI @Glisten ok thats 40 people to an island if shared equally lol..
looks might be easy to have your own island there.. well, with a sauna on it lol
https://www.visitfinland.com/en/articles/5-must-experience-saunas-in-the-coast-and-archipelago/
finland is also an archipeligo apaz
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