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@outlander  oh sweetheart sorry to hear that life is a struggle for you hoping the ndis will come through for you.  ummmm where do i begin..... eldest son has been causing problems but i wont go into that as he will be moving out soon which is a good thing for everyone.  middle son is in supported living which is wonderful for him he is really thriving in his new environment and my daughter is doing really well and back at home. 

 

ive been well im 60 now!!!! can you believe it?!?!

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@Former-Member washing buddies! 

 

@outlander 

I am recovering from a flashback and need to go do washing routine and then the final task on my long to do list

 

Very very slowly

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where has the time gone! @Bunniekins thats quite an update. is S1 moving to sil as wel or some sort of supported living arrangement?
im glad your other kids are going well too
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@avant-garde I'm still yet to start my washing 😂.

 

Oh the flashbacks are horrible, how are you holding up? 

 

Sending you love and hugs ❤️

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@outlander  s1 was overseas for 10 years came bak has a new gf of 3 months and is moving overseas to where her family lives and will start a business with her.  i am happy for him when he came back he lost his way but thanks to his gf he has found it again 🙂 .

 

you were one of the first people that i met here and was always such a kind and welcoming soul xxx

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slowly but surely @avant-garde it sounds like your getting there though!

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Hey @outlander 

It is great you have negotiated a good arrangement with and for pop. Dealing with income and housing issues is hard. 

You are right, breaking up all the things to do… helps… it is the only way larger tasks get done…. Almost like we need to be able to shift focus from small jobs… Eg make phone calls… get cash…. Check bank accounts… shop… drive here and there… and keep shifting focus back and forth to the big picture… and then next step…

 

just up and down atm… as in literally vertical and horizontal…

 

I love the idea of jobs not competing… lol @Former-Member very topical in our house…lol

 

I was tired and mucked up a kitchen shelf getting it dislodged… my son said have a rest… so I lay down and hopped on forum….but… it was my job to put the meat away… and now we have live furry beings who can jump on benches… even though they are getting the message they are not supposed to…lol…. Oops son came, told me  and I leapt out of bed to rescue the meat… my bad I was doing too many things at once!

 

so there are priorities… actually getting the kittens trained… will take time… trying to fix that time is an unnecessary stress….the grownup isn’t totally trained yet! lol

 

I do have a problem in pushing myself too hard … not knowing when enough is enuff.  If I push myself into non compos zone mistakes can happen, even though mostly I do muddle through alright.

 

@Agirl @Sorry you are struggling, but I hope you find some relief on the forums.  It’s a good bunch of people.

 

@Bunniekins  hope you all have a great family day celebrating your daughters birthday. Yep, Aspie here. 

 

 

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oh wow @Bunniekins that sounds like an exciting new venture.

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yes! lists are helpful @Appleblossom i feel like i have alot of lists but they do help
and often i start one job and forget and i have about 10 jobs going all at once!

i didnt know you had kittens.. i love those little critters! but they can be menaces lol

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@outlander   yes i am excited for him.  he suffers from depression so needs a break.  his gf is a lovely person.

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