Husband funeral

[Leeanne1]

@tyme 

I've been feeling depressed and tired. Trying so hard not to stop the thing l love doing. I've crocheting grandy square for different things. Going out now then with friends ,I have literacy Friday and going to a friend place Saturday for a birthday get together because it is my birthday Friday 

[tyme]

 I hear it takes a lot of effort to make yourself do some of these things. 

Allow yourself to feel and allow yourself to grieve. We are here for you.

Tell me about Literacy Friday @Leeanne1  Sounds very interesting.

[Alisse]

Hi @Leeanne1 

Wishing you a beautiful birthday today, and I hope tomorrow is a lovely day celebrating with your friends.

I'm so sorry to hear that your're feeling down and struggling right now.  Please be gentle with yourself, your'e still in the early stages of grieving after losing your husband, and dealing with the complex family dynamics at the funeral can be emotionally draining.

I'm really glad to hear that, despite how challenging things feel, you're still engaging in activities you love.  It's often the small moments of joy that can help us through the hardest times.  Grief is such a personal journey, and there's not set timelimit, but taking care of yourself by doing what brings you happiness is an important part of healing.

I hope you have a special day.

Take care Kindly Alisse

[Ru-bee]

Hi @Leeanne1 I wanted to stop by and wish you a happy birthday. I know these milestones can be very bittersweet and confusing when we're grieving, but I hope that today brings you some sweet moments and that you feel supported and loved. Thinking of you today 

I'd also love to hear more about your granny square projects when you're able. I'm mainly a knitter but want to learn more about crochet and specifically want to try making granny squares so I'd love to hear about yours

[Leeanne1]

@Ru-bee 

I learnt how to crochet by going on to YouTube.

I feel very supported and love here and safe as well. Thanks for the birthday wish

[Leeanne1]

@Alisse 

Thank you for thinking of me I'm so grateful and thanks for the birthday wish . I have to keep busy otherwise I will get to depressed 

[Leeanne1]

It's been nearly two months since my husband passed away. That went so quick 😮 I now want write to the children 😞😞

[tyme]

You have held up so well @Leeanne1 for the past two months. It shows how strong you are.

As for writing to your children, what's stopping you?

Nothing will ever stop you writing to your children whether it is writing to them in your mind, on the computer or a letter by hand. 

They may or may never read it, but it is your opportunity to open up and let some of what's in you have space.

[Leeanne1]

@tyme 

Just want them to know I'm still here if they ever need to talk  I'm still hoping on a connection with them now hubby can't reckon it anymore 😞😞

[tyme]

Write to them @Leeanne1 

Get all of that out (what you've just typed here). Tell them what they mean to you.

It may take time, but I don't think they can ever 'forget' you.