Hi 👋

[PeppyPatti]

I'm very sad seeing my three brothers being so triggered by me. I see my

Mum still using her manipulations on old  patterns like triangulation ( everyone hanging up on me is simple definition ) 

And bullying. 

I see my brother's getting closer and me getting isolated again. And there's nothing I can do even thou of all the years of therapy to maybe get close to them. And I didn't think of this just might not happen. I may never get close to them. 

Dunno if anything but what you want to do is the best thing to do. Can you send her a text or is that too hard ? 

I'm just asking knowing it may not be the right thing to do. 

[Jynx]

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@PeppyPatti wrote:

What's your last day @Jynx ? 

Do you work at sane

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Today is my last day!! I am off till the 2nd, and ya I work here teehee

How's your Monday going darlin?

[Shaz51]

Hello and hugs @Jynx ,  @PeppyPatti 😊

[Jynx]

@Shaz51 hiya!! How you going hun?

[Shaz51]

Hello 😊 @Jynx 

Getting there 

How about you 

Everyone is bringing something for Christmas lunch but Mr shaz is a bit upset about it 

[Jynx]

@Shaz51 Not too bad!

Aww no, why is Mr Shaz not a fan of em bringing food?

[Shaz51]

@Jynx 

He said that his family have taken control of our Christmas Lunch at our place as always 

It has happened all his life 

I am feeling different about it,  as it is helping me to cater , I love everyone helping ❤️ 

[Jynx]

@Shaz51 mmm that's tough!! I'm guessing it doesn't feel like they're taking control to you? Do you think there's a middle ground to be found?

[Shaz51]

@Jynx 

All I hope is that they eat some of our stuff too 

Instead of just  eating what they brought ( they have done this before) 

[Jynx]

Oh yikes @Shaz51 that wouldn't feel very nice!! So much for the spirit of sharing in the silly season eh? Aww I hope it ends up being a relatively chill luncheon!! No big family drama pls and thank you! 😅