The Principal passed it on to HR so I doubt she will be helpful. I may not even have to see her tomorrow - I may be able to give the form to the office and then they pass it onto her @Snowie I could ask those questions in an email - I need to get the wording right before I think about sending it though - it may be the best option with the way I am feeling about it all  I suppose I am putting it off too as I don't want the outcome to be what I don't want!