Hi @Hopeandlove 

I guess you can take some positive from them now knowing what is going on.  Not that it's great news, but we get used to that.  Rest up as much as possible and let them do their thing. 

And remember that the answer you gave isn't now written in stone, you can change it.  You could also ask to talk to someone about how you're coping.  You're already there with not much else to do, so may as well use any support services available.

I hope there's some good news with the pneumonia soon and you can get some relief from that.  Your system is fighting a lot of stuff at once, so it will take time.  Which i totally get is frustrating as time is not something we want to waste lying in a hospital bed, even in the best of times.