Thanks for the clarification @ClockFace . And I am sorry that surgery is not an option for you,  as it was for me. I hold out hope for you that a Spinal Cord Stimulator may be approved and fitted. It could just be the answer for you, so I hope you get to find out.  Best of luck in losing the necessary weight,  as I imagine that will be difficult. I'm fortunate I guess in that I am actually the opposite, I'm told I need to gain a little.  Life is unfairly hard for some, and you are one of those.  I think you are incredibly brave. 💝