@Glisten I don't know that she has a disorder, I think she's just a bitch.  She doesn't like to work at relationships, I should have seen that in her relationships with her father from whom she was estranged and her ex husband. She didn't want to have to work at anything so she didn't.

Reading that article though I think she might fit into the vulnerable narcissist category.

Either way she is the loser. And so are the kids.