Thanks @PeppyPatti but I was very lucky and both my cancers were successfully treated and now I just take a preventative tablet once a day.

I absolutely agree @Glisten, the MH effects of menopause are often only referred to in a snide, half joking way. Like “oh she must be menopausal”, like “oh she must be having a period”. Women are half the population (actually slightly more), but our health problems are hardly even on the radar 

@Bow  so sorry to hear about your cancer I hope you are going ok with it. It is known that cancer rates are higher in survivors of childhood abuse.

This is a great thread @avant-garde