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I think it's part of the process as we start to question and explore why we are they way we are.  We pick up little bets of advice and information that leads us to more and we start to build up a much better understanding of ourselves and people we can look for who can best support us.  In this regard, it sounds like you've had a really successful day that has given you quite a few really good bits of information to think about.