@tyme 

The main thing is that the pwBPD is ready to put in the hard work and work to make changes.

This is a problem when getting out of bed in the morning is an effort.

For us, unfortunately, and I trust in future things may change my darling is not interested in putting in any effort. Being awake is about as much as she can handle.

And we have not moved past yet blaming everyone around her for her outbursts. Even though they are not as frequent or violent as times past.