Hello @rav3n 

I am reading your reply now, & I feel so lucky to be SANE member. You have give me much kindness. I feel like you have looked through all the layers & spoke to me directly, resolving a potential question, that I am asking about, though, not really - .... I'm not sure exactly what I am saying.

I feel confident, really listened to, I feel cared about, I feel seen - in a good way.

I have no idea, if I am a person who is difficult to make sense of, however, it feels too brief, that I am able to be understood, like I have been now, in your reply. I want to say, (thankyou) -

an indigenous peoples,  that I watched on NITV, said that, their culture does not have this word. They are together. The word is implied with the action.

sorry, I do not have direct link, evidence. Please feel free to detract if this is culturally innapropriate to include, in this reply.

Anyway, I really love that idea. 

I was raised to have proper 'manners'- words are only words. It is about, intent.

Your reply was, is undeniably beautiful💐